It's Complicated

Harbans Nagpal

(he/him)

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Paris, FranceAvailable in-person, online and via text

About me

I am an Oxford and Cambridge educated Lacanian psychoanalyst and psychotherapist. I have been working in Paris for over 25-years. I specialise in treating anorexia, bulimia, obesity and addictions, such as to alcohol, nicotine, cannabis, cocaine and other drugs. I have also successfully treated gambling, sex and shopping addictions.

I treat patients in French, English and Hindi, regardless of where you are in the world. I currently have patients in the UK, India, Usa, and the Middle East.

I am an English doctor in the French system. But post Brexit I also have an office in Cambridge UK, where I see my UK patients every few weeks. I am a UK Registered Practioner with the GMC.

It may be time to make that phone call or write that email you have been putting off for so long! Most addictions are first of all psychological and treatable psychologically.

Appointments via WhatsApp, Skype or Zoom, or by telephone. I can also see you in person if you are in Paris, or from time to time in Cambridge, England.

I speak:

EnglishFrenchHindi

Location:

Paris, France

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
PsychoanalysisRecommended for those who want to explore how their unconscious mind and early experiences affect their current behaviors and feelings.
Psychotherapy Recommended for those who want to work through emotional or mental health challenges by talking with a trained psychotherapist.

Here are my thoughts on the subject of addictions. At origin, addiction is a psychological illness, not a physical illness, although its effects are extremely physical. It has to do with certain unresolved , unconscious wishes, desires, that create such a lack, an incompleteness in the conscious mind that the only escape from the discomfort is the release produced by the craved for substance ( cannabis, drugs, alcohol, food, nicotine) or activity (sex, shopping, gambling...). Once triggered, the craving is unstoppable : " Quick, give me something! Give me something! " and the addict runs to escape the discomfort in the mind. There are many possible final outcomes, types of addiction, but note that the mental pain, the psychological lack, is anterior to the craving, gives rise to the craving, is the real cause of the craving, And this is what needs repairing.

To conquer this lack, this emptiness that precedes the craving, causes the craving, you need a competent therapist, best of all a psychoanalyst, who understands this process and its origins: the unconscious thoughts, that are causing the trouble.

And these are nearly always to do with mother, father or similar important relationships or incidents of your childhood. The patient does not know why he is in this pain, why he feels this emptiness. He only feels the effects, the discomfort, the hole. But there is something going on at the back of the mind, that is producing this situation. Something more powerful than his conscious mind, more powerful than all his will power.

And this is what needs repairing. It is not a hardware problem to do with your nerves, your genes, your brain, your hormones or your enzymes. It is a software problem, a psychological problem, of your unconscious and conscious mind and thoughts. And this is repairable.

Take a look at my website for a longer discussion and my method of treatment.

http://www.nagpal-psychoanalyst.com/

Services

Intro Call

Free 15 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

€125 30 min Online & In-person

Individual Session

Sliding scale
€100 30 min Online & In-person

Couples Session

€250 1 hr Online & In-person

Insurances

Private InsurancePublic InsuranceReimbursementPrivate Pay
At a glance
Paris, FranceAvailable in-person, online and via text

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