It's Complicated

Connie Holler

(she/her)

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Stuttgart, GermanyAvailable in-person, online and via text

About me

As a systemic counselor, I support people who carry responsibilities and whose lives appear successful on the outside but don't feel that way inside. Together, we find ways for you to rediscover lightness, clarity, and joy in your life.

Do you recognize this? You are used to taking responsibility, but you’re currently stuck in your own situation. You feel constrained, pressured, and tense in your daily life, job, or relationship. You are frustrated by a persistent, recurring conflict. And you wonder if you are still living your own life.

Then it’s time to take action! Let's develop solutions and perspectives together that help you feel confident and clear again. We will work together so you can act from a position of strength and centeredness.

Good to know: As a certified MPU consultant, I am here to help you regain your driver's license.

I speak:

German

Location:

70 Stuttgart, Germany

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CoachingRecommended for those who want support and motivation to achieve personal or professional goals, often with a structured, goal-oriented approach.
CounsellingRecommended for those who want to talk through their emotional challenges with a professional in a safe, supportive environment.
MindfulnessMindfulness is the process of maintaining a purposeful moment-by-moment awareness of our thoughts, feelings, and surrounding environment.
Systemic approachRecommended for those who want to look at how different systems—like family, work, or society—affect their behavior and relationships.

My approach is needs-oriented and based on the principles of systemic counseling and therapy.

If something is currently on your mind where you could benefit from a professional external perspective, or if you want to gain new understanding or fresh insights through a discussion, feel free to book an appointment with me.

We can take one or two hours, with a short break if we choose the two-hour option. You decide whether it will be a one-time conversation or if you want to schedule additional sessions as needed.

As a result:

  • You will have organized your thoughts through reflection.
  • You will gain insights that clarify your next best steps.
  • You will benefit from the ideas we exchange.

Feel free to schedule an initial, non-binding consultation at no cost. In this conversation, you will share your concerns, and I will provide my initial assessment. An initial consultation lasts 20 minutes.

Services

Individual Session

€90 1 hr Online & In-person

coffee & coaching

€40 20 min Online & In-person

textbasierte Beratung

€25 30 min Online & In-person

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Stuttgart, GermanyAvailable in-person, online and via text

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