It's Complicated

Mateus Bocalini

(he/him)

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Tallinn, EstoniaAvailable online only
Usually responds after 24 hours

About me

Grounded in psychoanalysis, my practice focuses on addressing trauma, depression, grief, relationship and family challenges, burnout, and the unique experiences of expats adjusting to new cultures.

Originally from Brazil and now based in Estonia, I bring a global perspective to my work, honoring the diversity of experiences each person carries. Together, we can explore your story and work towards meaningful change.

I speak:

EnglishPortuguese

Location:

Tallinn, Estonia

Approach

Treatment Approaches
Clinical psychologyRecommended for those who need help with diagnosing and treating more complex mental health issues, often involving assessments and evidence-based treatments.
Lacanian psychoanalysisRecommended for those who want to explore the unconscious mind through the lens of language and desire, focusing on understanding deeper motivations.
PsychoanalysisRecommended for those who want to explore how their unconscious mind and early experiences affect their current behaviors and feelings.

Life can be complex, but together we can explore ways to navigate it with greater clarity and resilience. My approach to psychotherapy is both comprehensive and collaborative. Through thoughtful exploration of your past experiences, current challenges, and future aspirations, we'll open the door to possible healing through the layers of your story. This journey can help you manage the conflicts and emotions that are affecting your life.

I am committed to creating a professional, respectful, and welcoming space where you feel safe to share and reflect. Psychotherapy, in my view, is an opportunity to explore your freedom with kindness, curiosity, and without judgment.

My practice is guided by Lacanian psychoanalysis, which focuses on the role of language and the unconscious in shaping human behaviour and promoting personal growth. This perspective allows us to approach your concerns while addressing the root of the issues rather than just their symptoms.

In addition to my private practice, I have two years of experience as a resident psychologist in the Brazilian public health care system and have worked in corporate environments, which broadens my understanding of the diverse contexts people navigate.

Every story is unique, and I am here to help you explore yours with care and depth. Shall we begin?

Services

Intro Call

Free 40 min Online

Individual Session

€50 1 hr Online

Couples Session

€90 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Tallinn, EstoniaAvailable online only
Usually responds after 24 hours

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Next available: Jun 28