It's Complicated

Aleksandr Kharitonov

(he/him)

Gestalt Psychotherapist & Sex Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
Valencia, SpainAvailable online only
Usually responds within 2 hours

About me

Hello! I am Aleksandr — a certified Gestalt therapist (Moscow Gestalt Institute), crisis and relationship specialist, working with mental disorders.

I specialize in: • Depression & low self-esteem • Gender identity & LGBT+ concerns • Grief, loss & life transitions • Trauma & ADHD • Relationships, co-dependency & sexual disorders

What to expect in a session

  • careful and safe space, where you can increase your self-awareness, express feelings or share ideas and find a solution to your problem
  • identify what matters to you now
  • create practical steps to build self-agency and connection
  • build clearer boundaries, stronger self-esteem, more agency in your relationships
  • I use gestalt and CBT techniques in order to investigate your problem

I work with individuals and couples, offer online sessions and in-person (Valencia, Spain). I am LGBT+ and poly-friendly.

Ready to explore? Book your free 20-minute intro call

I speak:

EnglishRussian

Location:

Valencia, Spain

Approach

Treatment Approaches
ACT: Acceptance and commitment therapyRecommended for those who want to stop fighting negative thoughts and learn how to live with more acceptance and focus on what really matters in life.
Family therapyRecommended for families who want to resolve conflicts, improve communication, and understand each other better within the family dynamic.
Gestalt therapyRecommended for those who want to focus on the present and take responsibility for their feelings and actions to promote personal growth.

Therapy with me is a joint investigation of your life path, with respect for your feelings and experience. I practice Gestalt therapy, focusing both on what you feel in the moment and the bigger perspective of your life. I also implement CBT and ACT techniques in my work. I do not impose ready-made solutions but value your uniqueness and the worth of your story, providing support and gentle guidance.

Services

Intro Call

Free • 20 min • Online

Individual Session

€65 • 50 min • Online

Couples Session

€95 • 1 hr 30 min • Online

Insurances

Private Pay
At a glance
Valencia, SpainAvailable online only
Usually responds within 2 hours

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