It's Complicated

Robert Scaife

Counsellor

Available for new clients

I specialise in:

At a glance
London, United KingdomAvailable online and via text
Usually responds after 24 hours

About me

Hi, I'm Rob. I'm a kind and caring person, fortunate enough to have found a profession that allows me to bring my authentic self to something I love each day—supporting people through whatever they are facing in their lives. My own background as an identical twin has shaped much of who I am, influencing my values, relationships, and way of being in the world. I value integrity, compassion, humility, thoughtfulness, and emotional availability, and I see these qualities as fundamental to my work as a therapist and the process of change. Outside of my work as a therapist, my passions are my dogs, music, travel and sport.

I speak:

English

Location:

London, United Kingdom

Approach

Treatment Approaches
CBT: Cognitive behavioural therapyRecommended for those looking for practical support and accountability to change unhelpful thinking and behaviors.
Integrative therapy Recommended for those who prefer a flexible approach that combines different therapies to meet their unique needs.
Psychodynamic therapyRecommended for those looking to explore their emotions deeply and understand how past experiences shape their present life.

My approach to therapy is compassionate, collaborative, and tailored to you. I work integratively, drawing from CBT, psychodynamic therapy, existential-humanistic approaches, and attachment-informed neurobiological models, depending on what feels most helpful for you.

Some people want practical tools to manage anxiety or stress, while others seek a deeper understanding of their emotions, relationships, and sense of self—wherever you are, we will work at your pace.

I believe therapy is about more than just overcoming difficulties—it’s about self-discovery, growth, and creating a life that feels more meaningful and aligned with who you are. My role is to offer a safe and supportive space for you to explore your experiences, gain insight, heal, and grow in a way that feels right for you.

Services

Intro Call

Free 25 min Online

Individual Session

£100 1 hr Online

Insurances

Private PayPrivate Insurance
At a glance
London, United KingdomAvailable online and via text
Usually responds after 24 hours

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