It's Complicated

Find a therapist that can help with Attachment

Attachment theory describes the dynamics of interpersonal relationships in the moments of separation, loss and threat. Four different attachment classifications/styles have been identified: secure, anxious, avoidant and disorganized. These styles, which have the basis in the child-caregiver dynamics experienced in infancy and childhood, are carried out to adulthood. They manifest themselves in the patterns and behaviors of adult close and romantic relationships.

Free matching service

NEW!

Available in your language

Built by therapists

The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

The Directory

Find a therapist, psychologist, counsellor or coach based on your preferences.
Picture of Anna Schmutte
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Schmutte

Anna Schmutte

Systemische Einzel-, Paar- und Familientherapeutin, Körpertherapeutin, Coach, Kinderfrage-Coach, Qualifizierte Praktikerin der Grinberg Methode, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Picture of Fei Kaldrack
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Fei Kaldrack

Fei Kaldrack

Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Attachment • Depression • Dissociative disorders • LGBTQI • Psychological First Aid • Transitions • Trauma
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Attachment • Depression • Dissociative disorders • LGBTQI • Psychological First Aid • Transitions • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Picture of Robynne Fedrighi
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Robynne Fedrighi

Robynne Fedrighi

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Depression • Individuation • Online therapy • Personality disorders
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Depression • Individuation • Online therapy • Personality disorders
80 / session80
Alkmaar
Online only
Picture of Samira K Sahni
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Samira K Sahni

Samira K Sahni

Counseling Psychologist, CBT Practitioner - Delhi & Mumbai
Adjustment disorders • Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Adjustment disorders • Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • Trauma
28 / session28
Mumbai
Online only
Picture of Stefania
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Stefania

Stefania

Counseling and Clinical Psychologist, Yoga Therapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
90 / session90
Amsterdam
Online only
Picture of Carmen Cecilia Rodríguez
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Carmen Cecilia Rodríguez

Carmen Cecilia Rodríguez

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Dependent personality disorder • Depression • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Dependent personality disorder • Depression • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
70 / session70
Madrid
In-person and Online
Picture of Anna Bellack
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Bellack

Anna Bellack

Clinical Psychologist (M.A. psych.), Psychological counselor, ADHD/ADD friendly, integrative approach,online
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
85 / session85
Berlin
Online only
Picture of Sigrid Hafner
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sigrid Hafner

Sigrid Hafner

Mindfulness-Based Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Divorce • Mindfulness • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Divorce • Mindfulness • Stress
80 / session80
Verona
In-person and Online
Picture of Karina
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Karina

Karina

MSc Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Grief & Loss • Psychoanalysis • Relationships • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Grief & Loss • Psychoanalysis • Relationships • Self-confidence
65 / session65
Kyiv
Online only
Picture of Graeme Galton
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Graeme Galton

Graeme Galton

Registered Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
100 / session100
London
Online only
Picture of Roberta Fenili
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Roberta Fenili

Roberta Fenili

Online EMDR Psychotherapist / Clinical Psychologist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Attachment • EMDR • Female empowerment • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Attachment • EMDR • Female empowerment • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
70 / session70
Madrid
Online only
Picture of Ekaterina Reymarova
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Ekaterina Reymarova

Ekaterina Reymarova

Psychologin & Beraterin
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Co-Dependency • Self-harm • Stress • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Co-Dependency • Self-harm • Stress • Trauma
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Picture of Fabiano Zamel
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Fabiano Zamel

Fabiano Zamel

Psychological Counselor
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Dream analysis • Grief & Loss • Jungian analysis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Dream analysis • Grief & Loss • Jungian analysis • Trauma
130 / session130
Berlin
In-person and Online
Picture of Līna Sirsniņa
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Līna Sirsniņa

Līna Sirsniņa

Counselling Psychologist
Anger • Attachment • Mindfulness • Narcissistic abuse • Relationships • Self-confidence • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anger • Attachment • Mindfulness • Narcissistic abuse • Relationships • Self-confidence • Trauma
35 / session35
Riga
In-person and Online
Picture of Adam Luczak
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Adam Luczak

Adam Luczak

Psychological Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Picture of Milena Fehilly
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Milena Fehilly

Milena Fehilly

Psychologist & Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Depression • Family therapy • Female empowerment • Health anxiety
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Depression • Family therapy • Female empowerment • Health anxiety
40 / session40
Podgorica
In-person, Online and Text
Picture of Ellie Harvey-Kummer
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Ellie Harvey-Kummer

Ellie Harvey-Kummer

Integrative Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Coaching • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Coaching • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy
65 / session65
London
In-person and Online
Picture of Danielle Crawshaw
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Danielle Crawshaw

Danielle Crawshaw

Mindfulness-Based Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
70 / session70
Ratzeburg
Online only
Picture of Zoi Theofilakou
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Zoi Theofilakou

Zoi Theofilakou

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Art therapy • Attachment • Existential analysis • Gestalt therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Art therapy • Attachment • Existential analysis • Gestalt therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person and Online
Picture of Simona Di Folco
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Simona Di Folco

Simona Di Folco

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Clinical psychology • Depression • Parenthood • Psychodynamic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Clinical psychology • Depression • Parenthood • Psychodynamic therapy
£60 / session60
Edinburgh
Online only
Picture of Reema Singh
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Reema Singh

Reema Singh

Psychological Counselor
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Stress • Therapy for Expats
50 / session50
Aalen
Online and Text
Picture of Francesca Galafti
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Francesca Galafti

Francesca Galafti

Counselor & Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Depression • Grief & Loss
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Depression • Grief & Loss
60 / session60
Amsterdam
In-person, Online and Text
Picture of Marie Stoy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Marie Stoy

Marie Stoy

Paar- und Sexualberaterin
Attachment • Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Systemic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Attachment • Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Systemic therapy
100 / session100
Berlin
Online only
Picture of Maria Ursente
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Maria Ursente

Maria Ursente

Accredited Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Psycho-Oncology • Psychotherapy • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Psycho-Oncology • Psychotherapy • Relationships
50 / session50
Oradea
Online only
Picture of Elizabeth Ritchie
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Elizabeth Ritchie

Elizabeth Ritchie

Licensed Clinical Social Worker
Addictions • Attachment • EMDR • Holistic approach • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Addictions • Attachment • EMDR • Holistic approach • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
80 / session80
Düsseldorf
Online only
Picture of Alex Semenchenko
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Alex Semenchenko

Alex Semenchenko

Counselling Psychologist
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Personal development
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Personal development
50 / session50
Berlin
Online and Text

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

The Therapy Talk Podcast

With co-founder and clinical psychologist Johanne Schwensen