Find a therapist for depersonalisation & derealisation disorder

DPDR is often difficult to describe because it involves a disruption to ordinary subjective experience rather than a visible change in behaviour.

Common signs

• Feeling detached from your body, thoughts, or emotions, as though watching yourself from outside
• A sense of going through the motions automatically, without feeling present in what you are doing
• Your surroundings feeling dreamlike, flat, or visually distorted
• Familiar places or people feeling strange or unreal
• Emotional numbness, including difficulty feeling pleasure, sadness, or connection
• Hyperawareness of your own thinking, which can feel mechanical or alien

Other common experiences

• Intense anxiety about the experiences, particularly fear of going mad or of permanent unreality
• The experiences intensifying when you focus on them or try to make them stop
• Episodes triggered by anxiety, stress, fatigue, or substance use

Only a qualified mental health professional can assess whether these experiences meet the criteria for DPDR, and can rule out other conditions such as panic disorder, anxiety, or neurological causes. Many people with DPDR have co-occurring anxiety or a history of trauma.

Treatment for DPDR typically focuses on reducing the anxiety and hypervigilance that maintain the episodes, rather than trying to stop the experiences directly.

• CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) CBT for DPDR addresses the patterns of attention, monitoring, and anxious interpretation that keep the experiences active, and helps build more flexible ways of relating to unusual perceptual states.
• Trauma informed care Trauma-informed approaches are important when dissociation is rooted in earlier adverse or threatening experiences, providing a safe and carefully paced framework for the work.
• Somatic experiencing Somatic experiencing helps restore a felt sense of connection to the body, which is often disrupted in DPDR, working at the level of the nervous system rather than through verbal analysis alone.
• Psychodynamic therapy Psychodynamic work can explore the emotional and relational roots of dissociative experiences, including the function that detachment may be serving as a response to earlier difficulty.

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