It's Complicated

Find a therapist practicing EFT: Emotionally focused therapy

EFT is usually a short-term treatment for couples, which has also been adapted to work with individuals and families. In the EFT sessions, you can expect to work on developing a more secure bond (attachment) within your friendships, partnership or family relations, which in turn results in better communication and stronger relationships.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Find a therapist, psychologist, counsellor or coach based on your preferences.
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Anna Solovieva

Anna Solovieva

Gestalt Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Co-Dependency • Divorce • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Gestalt therapy
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Co-Dependency • Divorce • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Gestalt therapy
60 / session60
Belgrade
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Sanne Homewood

Sanne Homewood

Psychologist & Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Burnout • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Grief & Loss • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Burnout • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Grief & Loss • Relationships
70 / session70
Amsterdam
Online and Text
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Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sophie Kortenbruck

Sophie Kortenbruck

Systemische Therapeutin, MA Psychology, MSc Global Mental Health
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Self-confidence • Sleep disorders
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Self-confidence • Sleep disorders
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Alessia Carrano

Alessia Carrano

Relationship and Sex Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
70 / session70
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dariia Milinchuk

Dariia Milinchuk

Clinical Psychologist (Msc.), couple therapist
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
75 / session75
Amsterdam
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Nora Cahanovitc

Nora Cahanovitc

Psychologische Psychotherapeutin, Verhaltenstherapeutin
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
99 / session99
Be'er Sheva
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Sven Markus Richter

Sven Markus Richter

Couples Psychotherapist
Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Trauma
149 / session149
Berlin
In-person and Online
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Milou Dorhout Mees

Milou Dorhout Mees

Psychologist (M.Sc.), CBT and EMDR therapist, licensed yoga and meditation teacher
Anger • Anxiety • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Somatic Experiencing • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anger • Anxiety • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Somatic Experiencing • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
70 / session70
Amsterdam
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Laura Roguski

Laura Roguski

Systemic Coach, Counsellor and Therapist (SG)
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Schema therapy • Sexuality
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Schema therapy • Sexuality
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Sára Ritter

Sára Ritter

Couples Counsellor
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mediation • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mediation • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Therapy for Expats
90 / session90
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Gaia Gozzano

Gaia Gozzano

Clinical psychologist Italian and English
Attachment • Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Attachment • Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Marylise Dumont

Marylise Dumont

Couples therapist
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Sexuality
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Sexuality
180 / session180
Berlin
Online only
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Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Maja Helena Harmes

Maja Helena Harmes

Mindfulness-based Counselling and Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Emotion-Focused Approaches
Autism spectrum • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Autism spectrum • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress • Therapy for Expats
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Marc R. Backs

Marc R. Backs

Naturopath for integrative psychotherapy, hypnosis and holistic body incorporation
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Body therapy • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Hypnotherapy • Integrative therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Body therapy • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Hypnotherapy • Integrative therapy
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Theresa Feulner

Theresa Feulner

Clinical Psychologist, Couples Therapist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence
100 / session100
Hassfurt
Online only
Picture of Ina Susanne Plettl
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Ina Susanne Plettl

Ina Susanne Plettl

Coach, Psychotherapist (HPG)
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Psychotherapy • Systemic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Psychotherapy • Systemic therapy
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Lenssa

Lenssa

Psychologist (M.Sc.); Systemic Therapist
Career • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Career • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
/ session
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Picture of Charlotte Wong
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Charlotte Wong

Charlotte Wong

Counselling Psychologist from Hong Kong
Anxiety • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
110 / session110
Ottawa
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Caroline Müller

Caroline Müller

Systemische und lösungsorientierte Therapie und Beratung
Counselling • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Transgenerational
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Counselling • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Transgenerational
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person and Online
Picture of Rosanna Wendel
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Rosanna Wendel

Rosanna Wendel

Clinical Psychologist (MSc), Systemic therapy, EFT for couples
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Relationships
100 / session100
Berlin
Online only

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

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