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Learn more about addictions
Addiction is a condition in which a person compulsively seeks and uses a substance or engages in a behaviour despite harmful consequences and a persistent desire to stop. Recognised across the DSM-5 and ICD-11, addiction involves changes to brain circuitry governing reward, motivation, and impulse control, which is why stopping can be so difficult without support. Addictions are not a sign of weak willpower; they are a recognised health condition that responds to treatment.
Addiction can take many forms, including alcohol, drugs, gambling, and behavioural compulsions. Signs vary by type but a number of patterns tend to appear across them.
Common signs
- Spending increasing amounts of time obtaining, using, or recovering from a substance or behaviour
- Finding that more of a substance or activity is needed to achieve the same effect (tolerance)
- Experiencing physical or emotional discomfort when trying to stop (withdrawal)
- Continuing despite clear harm to health, relationships, or work
- Unsuccessful attempts to cut down or stop
- Giving up activities that were previously important
Other common experiences
- Intense cravings that feel difficult to resist
- Shame, secrecy, or hiding the extent of use
- Mood changes, irritability, or anxiety when access is limited
Addiction responds to a range of therapeutic approaches, often in combination. The most effective plans address both the addictive behaviour and the underlying patterns driving it.
- CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) CBT helps you identify the thoughts, triggers, and situations that lead to use, and builds practical skills for managing cravings and high-risk moments.
- DBT (Dialectical Behaviour Therapy) DBT was developed for people who experience intense emotions, which often underlies addictive behaviour. It combines skills in distress tolerance, emotional regulation, and mindfulness.
- Group therapy Group therapy provides peer support alongside therapeutic input, reducing the isolation that often accompanies addiction and building accountability.
- Psychodynamic therapy Psychodynamic therapy explores the deeper emotional and relational roots of addictive patterns, particularly useful when addiction is linked to unresolved experiences or attachment difficulties.
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