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Find a therapist who can address patterns of relating formed in early caregiver interactions through interventions such as attachment-based psychotherapy or emotionally focused therapy, fostering secure attachments and emotional regulation to support healthy relationships and self-concept.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Find a therapist, psychologist, counsellor or coach based on your preferences.
Anna Kaczmarczyk
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Anna Kaczmarczyk

Anna Kaczmarczyk

Psychologist, Psychotherapist in training, Psychological Counseling
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Asperger's syndrome (AS) • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Children • Grief & Loss
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Asperger's syndrome (AS) • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Children • Grief & Loss
60 / session60
Grodzisk Mazowiecki
Online only
Vera Pratikaki
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Vera Pratikaki

Vera Pratikaki

Accredited Psychotherapist
Art therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Hypnotherapy • Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) • Parenthood
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Art therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Hypnotherapy • Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) • Parenthood
90 / session90
Kifisia
Online and Text
Susanne Stauch
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Susanne Stauch

Susanne Stauch

Licensed Mental Health Practitioner: Psychotherapy, Systemic Coaching, Somatic Bodywork, EAP
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
RANA İREM GÜLER
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

RANA İREM GÜLER

RANA İREM GÜLER

Clinical psychologist & CBT Psychotherapist & Family Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Couples therapy • Psychotherapy • Therapists for Ukraine
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Couples therapy • Psychotherapy • Therapists for Ukraine
70 / session70
Marmaris
Online only
Sinem Gurcay
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Sinem Gurcay

Sinem Gurcay

Psychological counseling and Coaching
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
70 / session70
Munich
In-person, Online and Text
Carmen Cecilia Rodríguez
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Carmen Cecilia Rodríguez

Carmen Cecilia Rodríguez

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Dependent personality disorder • Depression • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Dependent personality disorder • Depression • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
70 / session70
Madrid
In-person and Online
Amanda Hoffmann
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Amanda Hoffmann

Amanda Hoffmann

Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Acute Stress Disorder • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Acute Stress Disorder • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression
120 / session120
Hamburg
In-person and Online
Alessia Carrano
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Alessia Carrano

Alessia Carrano

Relationship and Sex Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
70 / session70
Berlin
Online only
ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Adolescent • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Counselling • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Adolescent • Anxiety • Attachment • Bipolar Disorder • Counselling • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • LGBTQI
45 / session45
Athens
Online only
Anna Schmutte
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Schmutte

Anna Schmutte

Systemische Einzel-, Paar- und Familientherapeutin, Körpertherapeutin, Coach, Kinderfrage-Coach, Qualifizierte Praktikerin der Grinberg Methode, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
Adam Luczak
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Adam Luczak

Adam Luczak

Psychological Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person and Online
Stefania
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Stefania

Stefania

Counseling and Clinical Psychologist, Yoga Therapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
90 / session90
Amsterdam
Online only
Monica Cabildo
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Monica Cabildo

Monica Cabildo

Coach
Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Female empowerment • Personal development • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Attachment • Burnout • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Female empowerment • Personal development • Relationships
85 / session85
Berlin
In-person and Online
Irene Papadakis
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Irene Papadakis

Irene Papadakis

Counseling Psychologist and Therapist
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
70 / session70
Athens
Online and Text
Ingrid Glanowski
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Ingrid Glanowski

Ingrid Glanowski

Accredited Psychologist
Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Depression • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
80 / session80
Palermo
Online only
Czombos Zita
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Czombos Zita

Czombos Zita

Psychologist
Attachment • Career • Coaching • Counselling • Meditation • Online therapy • Personal development
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Attachment • Career • Coaching • Counselling • Meditation • Online therapy • Personal development
55 / session55
Budapest
In-person, Online and Text
Asli Baz
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Asli Baz

Asli Baz

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
Academic or educational problems • ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career
90 / session90
Düsseldorf
Online only
Katharina Buchholz
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Katharina Buchholz

Katharina Buchholz

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.)
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • PTSD
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • PTSD
90 / session90
Berlin
Online only
Kirsty Matthews
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Kirsty Matthews

Kirsty Matthews

Licenced Global Psychologist/Counselor
Addictions • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Couples therapy • Therapists for Ukraine • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Addictions • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Children • Couples therapy • Therapists for Ukraine • Trauma
60 / session60
London
Online only
Yosef Starkin
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Yosef Starkin

Yosef Starkin

Relational psychotherapist
Addictions • Anger • Attachment • Couples therapy • Depression • Integrative therapy • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Addictions • Anger • Attachment • Couples therapy • Depression • Integrative therapy • Relationships
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person and Online
Dariia Milinchuk
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dariia Milinchuk

Dariia Milinchuk

Clinical Psychologist (Msc.), couple therapist
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissistic abuse • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Trauma
75 / session75
Amsterdam
Online only
Ebrar Atalay
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Ebrar Atalay

Ebrar Atalay

Clinical Psychologist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Mindfulness • Relationships
85 / session85
Vienna
Online only
Aglaia Michelaki
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Aglaia Michelaki

Aglaia Michelaki

Clinical Gestalt Psychotherapist, Certified Mindfulness Instructor (MBSR), Life Coach
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Chronic Pain • Coaching • Mindfulness • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Chronic Pain • Coaching • Mindfulness • Trauma
kr700 / session700
Copenhagen
Online only
Gaia Gozzano
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Gaia Gozzano

Gaia Gozzano

Clinical psychologist Italian and English
Attachment • Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
Anne Pascale Stein
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Anne Pascale Stein

Anne Pascale Stein

Body Psychotherapist, Somatic Coach, AEDP, Grinberg Method, EMDR, TRE, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
120 / session120
Berlin
In-person and Online
Anna Bellack
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Bellack

Anna Bellack

Clinical Psychologist (M.A. psych.), Psychological counselor, ADHD/ADD friendly, integrative approach,online
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum • Relationships • Stress
85 / session85
Berlin
Online only

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists specialising in Attachment

What is attachment? Attachment refers to the emotional bond that forms between infants and their caregivers, typically during the first years of life. It plays a crucial role in shaping a child's social and emotional development, as well as their future relationships and mental health. Secure attachment is characterised by a child's ability to seek comfort and reassurance from their caregiver and explore the world confidently, knowing that their needs will be met. In contrast, insecure attachment can lead to difficulties in regulating emotions, forming healthy relationships, and coping with stress later in life. Understanding attachment patterns and dynamics is essential for providing nurturing and supportive environments that foster healthy attachment bonds. Effective management for attachment issues Effective therapy for attachment issues focuses on building secure attachment relationships and addressing underlying emotional needs. Therapists use various approaches, such as attachment-based therapy, play therapy, and family therapy, to promote emotional regulation, enhance communication skills, and repair attachment ruptures. Creating a safe and trusting therapeutic environment is essential for individuals to explore their attachment experiences, express their emotions, and develop healthy coping strategies. Therapists work collaboratively with clients to identify and challenge maladaptive patterns of relating, empowering them to form more secure and fulfilling relationships. Find the right therapist on It’s Complicated It may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, It's Complicated operates in nearly 100 languages, offering both online and in-person sessions. With a diverse network of over 1,500 mental health professionals spanning 80+ countries, you can easily connect with accredited psychologists who can support you.

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