It's Complicated

Find a therapist that can help with Attachment

Attachment theory describes the dynamics of interpersonal relationships in the moments of separation, loss and threat. Four different attachment classifications/styles have been identified: secure, anxious, avoidant and disorganized. These styles, which have the basis in the child-caregiver dynamics experienced in infancy and childhood, are carried out to adulthood. They manifest themselves in the patterns and behaviors of adult close and romantic relationships.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Meet with one of our 1,500 vetted therapists online or in-person. Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors are experts at helping with anxiety, depression, stress, burnout, couples therapy, and more. It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Milena Fehilly

Psychologist & Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Depression • Family therapy • Female empowerment • Health anxiety
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Depression • Family therapy • Female empowerment • Health anxiety
40/session
In-person and Online
Podgorica
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Lavinia Bucur

Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Group therapy • IFS: Internal Family Systems • Transgenerational • Trauma
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Group therapy • IFS: Internal Family Systems • Transgenerational • Trauma
80/session
In-person and Online
Amsterdam
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Anna Bellack

Clinical Psychologist (M.A. psych.), Psychological counselor, ADHD/ADD friendly, integrative approach,online
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Relationships • Stress
Academic or educational problems • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Attachment • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Relationships • Stress
85/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Carmen Cecilia Rodríguez

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Dependent personality disorder • Depression • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
Anxiety • Attachment • Dependent personality disorder • Depression • Online therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
70/session
In-person and Online
Madrid
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sigrid Hafner

Accredited Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Divorce • Mindfulness • Stress
Anxiety • Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Divorce • Mindfulness • Stress
80/session
In-person and Online
Verona
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Yafa Jaffal

psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Coaching • Depression • Holistic approach • Panic attacks
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Coaching • Depression • Holistic approach • Panic attacks
130/session
Online only
Amman
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Susanne Stauch

Licensed Mental Health Practitioner: Psychotherapy, Systemic Coaching, Somatic Bodywork, EAP
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Grief & Loss • Spiritual crisis • Trauma
90/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Alexandra Suarez

Sex Counsellor
Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
Attachment • Counselling • Couples therapy • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
80/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

RANA İREM GÜLER

Clinical psychologist & CBT Psychotherapist & Family Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Couples therapy • Psychotherapy • Therapists for Ukraine
Anxiety • Attachment • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Couples therapy • Psychotherapy • Therapists for Ukraine
70/session
Online only
Marmaris
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Amanda Hoffmann

Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Acute Stress Disorder • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression
Acute Stress Disorder • Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression
120/session
In-person and Online
Hamburg
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Jacques B RIFF

Gestalt therapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Gestalt therapy • Narcissism • Parenthood • Separation anxiety disorder
Anxiety • Attachment • Couples therapy • Gestalt therapy • Narcissism • Parenthood • Separation anxiety disorder
79/session
Online and Text
Labattoir
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Adam Luczak

Psychological Counsellor
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships • Trauma
90/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Katharina Albrecht

Couples and Sex Therapist
Attachment • Body therapy • Couples therapy • Psychodynamic therapy • Sexuality • Somatic Experiencing • Trauma
Attachment • Body therapy • Couples therapy • Psychodynamic therapy • Sexuality • Somatic Experiencing • Trauma
100/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sarah Ehssan

Registered (MBACP) Psychodynamic Psychotherapist
Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • LGBTQI • Schizoaffective disorder • Trauma
Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • LGBTQI • Schizoaffective disorder • Trauma
50/session
Online only
London
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Robynne Fedrighi

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Depression • Individuation • Online therapy • Personality disorders
Anxiety • Attachment • Clinical psychology • Depression • Individuation • Online therapy • Personality disorders
80/session
Online only
Alkmaar
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Margherita Chiusano

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc) and Clinical Counselor
Anxiety • Attachment • Body dysmorphic disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI
Anxiety • Attachment • Body dysmorphic disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Grief & Loss • LGBTQI
40/session
Online only
Berlin
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Boštjan Lužnik

Body Psychotherapist
Attachment • Body therapy • Holistic approach • Online therapy • Personal development • Stress • Trauma
Attachment • Body therapy • Holistic approach • Online therapy • Personal development • Stress • Trauma
80/session
In-person and Online
Koper - Capodistria
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Danielle Crawshaw

Mindfulness-Based Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
Anxiety • Attachment • Divorce • EMDR • Mindfulness • Relationships • Trauma
70/session
Online only
Ratzeburg
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Stefania

Counseling and Clinical Psychologist, Yoga Therapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Mediation • PTSD • Trauma Informed Care
90/session
Online only
Amsterdam
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Anne Pascale Stein

Body Psychotherapist, Somatic Coach, AEDP, Grinberg Method, EMDR, TRE, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
Anxiety • Attachment • Body therapy • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
120/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Anna Schmutte

Systemische Einzel-, Paar- und Familientherapeutin, Körpertherapeutin, Coach, Kinderfrage-Coach, Qualifizierte Praktikerin der Grinberg Methode, Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
Attachment • Coaching • Couples therapy • Female empowerment • Online therapy • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy
120/session
In-person, Online and Text
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Irene Papadakis

Counseling Psychologist and Therapist
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Integrative therapy • Relationships • Transitions
Anxiety • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • Integrative therapy • Relationships • Transitions
70/session
Online and Text
Athens
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Zoi Theofilakou

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Art therapy • Attachment • Existential analysis • Gestalt therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
Art therapy • Attachment • Existential analysis • Gestalt therapy • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
80/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Sinem Gurcay

Psychological counseling and Coaching
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
Anxiety • Attachment • Burnout • Career • Children • Counselling • Depression
60/session
In-person and Online
Munich
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

María Gracia Abad

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Psychological abuse • PTSD • Self-confidence • Trauma
Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Psychological abuse • PTSD • Self-confidence • Trauma
60/session
Online only
Guayaquil
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Samira K Sahni

Counseling Psychologist, CBT Practitioner - Delhi & Mumbai
Adjustment disorders • Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • Trauma
Adjustment disorders • Anger • Anxiety • Attachment • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • Trauma
28/session
Online only
Mumbai

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

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