It's Complicated

Find a therapist that can help with Borderline personality disorder

Borderline personality disorder is a mental illness marked by an ongoing pattern of varying moods, self-image, and behavior. These symptoms often result in impulsive actions and problems in relationships. People with borderline personality disorder may experience intense episodes of anger, depression, and anxiety that can last from a few hours to days.

People with borderline personality disorder may experience mood swings and display uncertainty about how they see themselves and their role in the world. As a result, their interests and values can change quickly.

People with borderline personality disorder also tend to view things in extremes, such as all good or all bad. Their opinions of other people can also change quickly. An individual who is seen as a friend one day may be considered an enemy or traitor the next. These shifting feelings can lead to intense and unstable relationships.

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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Mortatha Al Khafage

Accredited Clinical Psycholgist
Acute Stress Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Depression • PTSD • Schema therapy
Acute Stress Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Depression • PTSD • Schema therapy
69/session
Online and Text
Hamburg
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

João Carvalho

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Schizoid personality disorder • Trauma
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Schizoid personality disorder • Trauma
50/session
Online and Text
Lisbon
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Vanessa Murri

Accreditated Clinical Psychologist (MSc.)
Addictions • Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Eating disorders • Stress • Trauma
Addictions • Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Eating disorders • Stress • Trauma
90/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Malak Niakan

Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
80/session
Online only
London
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dr. Ela Ari

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Psychotherapist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
85/session
In-person and Online
Istanbul
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Joel Colasso

Clinical Psychologist and Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Dissociative identity disorder (DID) • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Stress
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Dissociative identity disorder (DID) • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Stress
50/session
Online only
Buenos Aires
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Matija Pajer

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
60/session
In-person and Online
Ljubljana
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Stephanie Romero Ponticelli

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Therapy for Expats
Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Therapy for Expats
60/session
Online and Text
Quito
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Christian Möbius

Dipl. Paed. (Grad. pedagogue), Psychotherapy (HPG), Group analyst, Cert. in Dialectic Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Humanistic Psychology (TCI) and Neuolinguistic Programming (NLP)
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Depression • Personality disorders • Relationships • Trauma
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Depression • Personality disorders • Relationships • Trauma
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Hugo Iglesias Moraes

Licensed Psychologist (Jungian Approach) & Certified Clinical Neuropsychologist — Couples and Individual Therapy
Art therapy • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Crisis Response • Jungian analysis • Psychoanalysis
Art therapy • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Crisis Response • Jungian analysis • Psychoanalysis
70/session
Online only
Fortaleza
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Anton Freund

Clinical Psychologist
Addictions • Alcoholism • Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Mindfulness
Addictions • Alcoholism • Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Mindfulness
30/session
Online only
Vienna
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Oya Celik

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychodynamic therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Trauma
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychodynamic therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Trauma
60/session
Online only
Amstelveen
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Roderick Cameron

Psychoanalyst and Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Spiritual crisis • Therapists for Ukraine
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Spiritual crisis • Therapists for Ukraine
70/session
Online only
Nicosia
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sarah Ehssan

Registered (MBACP) Psychodynamic Psychotherapist
Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • LGBTQI • Schizoaffective disorder • Trauma
Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • LGBTQI • Schizoaffective disorder • Trauma
50/session
Online only
London

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

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