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Find a therapist who can offer dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT), schema-focused therapy, and psychodynamic approaches to address the emotional dysregulation, unstable sense of self, and interpersonal difficulties characteristic of borderline personality disorder (BPD).

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. It’s Complicated is the first matching service that balances data and human intelligence to help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our mission is to make therapy accessible to everyone by offering flexible pricing options, so you can find professional support that fits your budget. Whether online or in-person, receive the care you need for depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more — available in more than 80 languages.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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Find a therapist, psychologist, counsellor or coach based on your preferences.
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Elizabeth Becker

Elizabeth Becker

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Burnout • Counselling • High Sensitivity • Mindfulness • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Burnout • Counselling • High Sensitivity • Mindfulness • Relationships
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person and Online
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Dr. Ela Ari

Dr. Ela Ari

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Grief & Loss • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
Istanbul
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

João Carvalho

João Carvalho

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Schizoid personality disorder • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychotherapy • Schizoid personality disorder • Trauma
50 / session50
Lisbon
Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

ASPA KONSTANTOUDAKI

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Depression
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Depression
45 / session45
Athens
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Nefeli Louizou

Nefeli Louizou

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • Depression • LGBTQI • Personality disorders
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • Depression • LGBTQI • Personality disorders
60 / session60
Berlin
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Malak Niakan

Malak Niakan

Integrative Counsellor
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Grief & Loss • Relationships
100 / session100
London
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Mortatha Al Khafage

Mortatha Al Khafage

Clinical Psychologist
Acute Stress Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Depression • PTSD • Schema therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Acute Stress Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Clinical psychology • Depression • PTSD • Schema therapy
69 / session69
Hamburg
Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Hugo Iglesias Moraes

Hugo Iglesias Moraes

Licensed Psychologist (Jungian Approach) & Certified Clinical Neuropsychologist — Couples and Individual Therapy
Autism spectrum • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Crisis Response • Jungian analysis • Schema therapy • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Autism spectrum • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Crisis Response • Jungian analysis • Schema therapy • Solution-focused therapy
£70 / session70
London
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Irina Petreanu

Irina Petreanu

Psychotherapist & Counsellor
Anxiety • Art therapy • Borderline personality disorder • EMDR • Mindfulness • Somatic Experiencing • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Art therapy • Borderline personality disorder • EMDR • Mindfulness • Somatic Experiencing • Trauma
80 / session80
Bucharest
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Matija Pajer

Matija Pajer

Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Personality disorders • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
60 / session60
Ljubljana
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Marcel Themann

Marcel Themann

Klinischer Psychologe (M.Sc. Psych.), Psychotherapeut (i.A.)
ADHD Assessment • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Agoraphobia • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • LGBTQI • Social anxiety
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
ADHD Assessment • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Agoraphobia • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • LGBTQI • Social anxiety
85 / session85
Berlin
Online only
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Mauro Cappelli

Mauro Cappelli

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Burnout • Depression • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Bipolar Disorder • Borderline personality disorder • Burnout • Depression • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
65 / session65
Innsbruck
Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Facundo Illobre

Facundo Illobre

Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Jungian analysis • Schema therapy • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Jungian analysis • Schema therapy • Trauma
70 / session70
Colchester
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Georgeta Vasile

Georgeta Vasile

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Burnout • Clinical psychology • Counselling
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Burnout • Clinical psychology • Counselling
50 / session50
Bucharest
In-person, Online and Text
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Shannon Leigh Psychotherapist

Shannon Leigh Psychotherapist

Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • Mindfulness • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) • Mindfulness • Trauma
75 / session75
Taberno
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Vanessa Murri

Vanessa Murri

Accreditated Clinical Psychologist (MSc.)
Addictions • Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Eating disorders • Stress • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Eating disorders • Stress • Trauma
90 / session90
Berlin
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Oya Celik

Oya Celik

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychodynamic therapy • Sex therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Sexuality • Trauma • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychodynamic therapy • Sex therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Sexuality • Trauma • Trauma
80 / session80
Amstelveen
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Deryal Yuksel

Deryal Yuksel

Psychotherapist
Addictions • Art therapy • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Addictions • Art therapy • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats
50 / session50
Istanbul
In-person, Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Roderick Cameron

Roderick Cameron

Psychoanalyst and Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Spiritual crisis • Therapists for Ukraine
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Psychoanalysis • Psychodynamic therapy • Spiritual crisis • Therapists for Ukraine
70 / session70
Nicosia
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Joel Colasso

Joel Colasso

Clinical Psychologist and Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Dissociative identity disorder (DID) • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Anxiety • Borderline personality disorder • Depression • Dissociative identity disorder (DID) • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships • Stress
$65 / session65
Buenos Aires
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Stephanie Romero Ponticelli

Stephanie Romero Ponticelli

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Autism spectrum • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Personality disorders
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Autism spectrum • Borderline personality disorder • Clinical psychology • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Mindfulness • Personality disorders
70 / session70
Quito
Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Özde Gül Demir

Özde Gül Demir

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
Academic or educational problems • Anorexia • Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Therapists for Ukraine
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • Anorexia • Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Couples therapy • Therapists for Ukraine
60 / session60
Bournemouth
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Anna Solovieva

Anna Solovieva

Gestalt Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Co-Dependency • Divorce • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Gestalt therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Attachment • Borderline personality disorder • Co-Dependency • Divorce • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Gestalt therapy
60 / session60
Belgrade
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Lisa-Maria Aldinger

Lisa-Maria Aldinger

Accredited Integrative Cognitive-behavioral Psychotherapist and Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.)
Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Group therapy • LGBTQI • PTSD • Schema therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Borderline personality disorder • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • DBT: Dialectical Behavior Therapy • Group therapy • LGBTQI • PTSD • Schema therapy
70 / session70
Berlin
In-person only

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

Learn more about therapists who can help with Borderline personality disorder

Getting help with Borderline personality disorder

Many have sought help successfully through finding a qualified and compassionate psychotherapist to help with Borderline personality disorder. Seeking professional help is a key step in understanding what you need to gain more stability in everyday life and how to integrate healthy coping mechanisms into your daily routine. To learn how to go about selecting the perfect therapist, read our guide here.

How to choose a therapist specialising in Borderline personality disorder

It’s not unusual to feel slightly overwhelmed when choosing a type of therapy. These feelings are completely normal and can be part of the initial stages of seeking therapy. It's important to remember that finding the right fit for you is crucial, and it may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you need additional help in finding a qualified practitioner, It’s Complicated offers a free matching service, where our in-house therapists will try to find the best match for you based on your individual needs and preferences.

It’s Complicated: Counselling worldwide

Search for practitioners who specialise in Borderline personality disorder and many other approaches in the search tool here in our directory of licensed professionals. For many of us, there's never a more important time than now to nurture our mental health. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, our platform features over 1,500 mental health professionals from 80+ countries. Counselling is also available in almost 100 languages, both online and in-person, making the search for an accredited psychologist who is knowledgeable about Borderline personality disorder much less complicated.

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