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The main idea of the systemic theory is that each part of the system (a member of the group) with its unique function within the system significantly contributes to the maintenance of the stability and equilibrium of the system as a whole. In a systemic approach an individual is not treated as a separate entity but rather as an intemperately part of the broader system (family, society, culture, …). The systemic approach is used in different settings, from individual therapy, family therapy and group therapy.

In the session, a therapist with a systemic approach will help you identify and understand unhealthy patterns in relationship dynamicss so that these can be altered within the existing systems. The focus is on solutions rather than trying to understand the origins of unhealthy patterns.

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Judith Morgado

Systemische Psychotherapeutin
Acute Stress Disorder • Burnout • Couples therapy • EMDR • Stress • Systemic therapy • Trauma
Acute Stress Disorder • Burnout • Couples therapy • EMDR • Stress • Systemic therapy • Trauma
100/session
In-person and Online
Hamburg
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Nikolas Mousoulis

Licensed Mental Health Psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • Family therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Narrative therapy • Relationships • Systemic therapy
Anxiety • Burnout • Family therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Narrative therapy • Relationships • Systemic therapy
50/session
In-person and Online
Athens
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Manuela Monti

Accredited Clinical Psychologist (M. Sc.) and Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Burnout • Couples therapy • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy • Systemic therapy • Trauma
Anxiety • Burnout • Couples therapy • Depression • Psychodynamic therapy • Systemic therapy • Trauma
90/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Katharina Hohmann

Mindfulness-Based Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Holistic approach • Mindfulness • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Holistic approach • Mindfulness • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
75/session
Online only
Puerto Varas
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Claudia Cesa

Systemic-Family Counsellor
Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Family therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Systemic therapy
Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Family therapy • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Systemic therapy
100/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Diandra Camila Ritzdorf Winckler

Systemic Psychologist - Relationships: Couple, Family and with Yourself.
Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Personal development • Relationships • Systemic therapy
Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Personal development • Relationships • Systemic therapy
60/session
Online only
Curitiba
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Nina Fiedler

Systemic Counsellor, German, English
Children • Grief & Loss • Intellectual Disabilities • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
Children • Grief & Loss • Intellectual Disabilities • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
80/session
Online only
Hamburg
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sina

Psychologist, Systemic Therapist
Anger • Anxiety • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Relationships • Stress • Systemic therapy
Anger • Anxiety • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Relationships • Stress • Systemic therapy
90/session
Online only
Istanbul
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sarah Vogels

Clinical Psychologist
Addictions • Attachment • Grief & Loss • Systemic therapy • Trauma
Addictions • Attachment • Grief & Loss • Systemic therapy • Trauma
85/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Lea Vogt

Accredited Psychologist (MSc)
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • Depression • Family therapy • Mediation • Systemic therapy
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • Depression • Family therapy • Mediation • Systemic therapy
85/session
Online only
Münster
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Marie Stoy

Paar- und Sexualberaterin
Attachment • Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Systemic therapy
Attachment • Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sex therapy • Systemic therapy
100/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Annina Tonkov

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.), Systemic counselor for individuals and couples, Couples and sex counselor, Queer and non-monogamy friendly
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Relationships • Sexuality • Systemic therapy
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Relationships • Sexuality • Systemic therapy
90/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Ina Susanne Plettl

Coach, Psychotherapist (HPG)
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Psychotherapy • Systemic therapy
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Psychotherapy • Systemic therapy
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Bertine De Jongh

Clinical Psychologist & Supervisor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Clinical psychology • Couples therapy • Hypnotherapy • Relationships • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Clinical psychology • Couples therapy • Hypnotherapy • Relationships • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
110/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Lenssa

Psychologist (M.Sc.); Systemic Therapist
Career • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
Career • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
120/session
In-person, Online and Text
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Konstantina Markopoulou

Systemic Psychotherapist with extra training in CBT and ACT working in the Netherlands and online
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Depression • Relationships • Self-confidence • Systemic therapy
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Depression • Relationships • Self-confidence • Systemic therapy
50/session
In-person and Online
The Hague
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Sára Ritter

Couples Counsellor
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mediation • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Therapy for Expats
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mediation • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Therapy for Expats
90/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Caroline Müller

Systemische und lösungsorientierte Therapie und Beratung
Counselling • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Transgenerational
Counselling • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Transgenerational
100/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Lisa Utke

Psychologin (M.Sc.), Psychologische Psychotherapeutin (in fortgeschrittener Ausbildung)
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Nonviolent Communication • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy
Anxiety • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Nonviolent Communication • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy
95/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Danai Petropoulou

Psychologist MSc, Systemic Psychotherapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Couples therapy • Eating disorders • Family therapy • Relationships • Systemic therapy
Addictions • Anxiety • Couples therapy • Eating disorders • Family therapy • Relationships • Systemic therapy
50/session
Online only
Marousi
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Edita Henzl

Conversational partner - MSc in Psychotherapy - Systemic Relational Individual and Family Therapist
Couples therapy • Crisis Response • Family therapy • Systemic therapy
Couples therapy • Crisis Response • Family therapy • Systemic therapy
90/session
In-person only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Kristin Reimers

Clinical Psychologist/Klinische Psychologin (M. Sc.), Systemic Therapist/Systemische Therapeutin (SG), Heilpraktikerin für Psychotherapie
Burnout • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • Divorce • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
Burnout • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • Divorce • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
80/session
Online only
Hamburg
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Myriell Kohrs

Psychologist, Psychotherapist (HPG), Couples therapist
Burnout • Couples therapy • EMDR • Psychotherapy • PTSD • Sexuality • Systemic therapy
Burnout • Couples therapy • EMDR • Psychotherapy • PTSD • Sexuality • Systemic therapy
100/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Hannah Hebenstreit

Relationship therapist, Couples therapist, Relational Life Therapy practitioner (RLT), clinical psychologist (Msc.)
Counselling • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Relationships • Systemic therapy
Counselling • Couples therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Relationships • Systemic therapy
160/session
Online only
Berlin

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In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

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