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Learn more about life transitions
Life transitions are significant changes in circumstances, roles, or identity that require a person to adapt to a new reality: moving country, changing career, ending or beginning a relationship, becoming a parent, losing someone important, retiring, or reaching a point where what worked before no longer feels adequate. Transitions are a normal part of life, but they can be psychologically demanding even when they are chosen or welcome. They often involve a period of uncertainty, a loss of familiar structures, and questions about identity and direction that are not quickly resolved. Therapy during a life transition provides a space to process what is changing, grieve what is ending, and develop clarity about what comes next.
Life transitions do not need to be catastrophic to warrant support. The following experiences are common prompts.
- You are in the middle of a significant change and struggling to find your footing
- A transition you expected to manage has left you more unsettled than you anticipated
- You feel stuck between a chapter that has ended and one that has not yet taken shape
- A positive change, a promotion, a new relationship, a move, has brought unexpected anxiety or loss alongside it
- You are questioning things that felt settled before, your direction, your values, or who you are outside of a particular role
- You have recently experienced bereavement, separation, job loss, or a health change and are finding it hard to adapt
- Recurring stress, low mood, or difficulty concentrating is making it harder to navigate the change
Several approaches work well during life transitions, depending on whether the focus is on processing, deciding, or building something new.
- Counselling Counselling provides a consistent, reflective space to make sense of what is changing, what you are losing, and what you want going forward, without a fixed agenda.
- Coaching Coaching is particularly useful when a transition involves concrete decisions, building new structures, or developing clarity about goals and next steps.
- ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) ACT helps with the uncertainty and discomfort that transition brings, building the ability to move forward in alignment with your values even when the path is not yet clear.
- Person-centred approach Person-centred therapy creates space led by your own pace and understanding, which suits the open-ended, often unscripted nature of transition.
- Existential analysis Existential analysis is particularly suited to transitions that raise deeper questions about meaning, purpose, freedom, and what you want the next chapter to stand for.
It's Complicated is a therapist-founded mental health platform connecting clients with verified practitioners across Europe and globally, in over 60 languages. We work with over 2,500 vetted therapists, with in-person availability in Berlin, Amsterdam, Barcelona, Lisbon, Vienna, and other major cities, alongside online sessions worldwide. It's Complicated is free to use, and you pay your chosen therapist directly at rates they set.
Finding the right kind of support during a transition, whether you need to process, decide, or simply be accompanied through uncertainty, is not always obvious. Our matching service is built to remove that friction. You complete a short survey, our psychologists combine data-driven insights with human judgement to identify the right therapists for your situation, and you choose from a shortlist of strong candidates. You can also browse our directory directly if you'd prefer to choose yourself.
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