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Find a therapist that can help with Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy

Find a therapist who can offer non-judgmental support and guidance for individuals and relationships practising alternative forms of consensual non-monogamy, exploring issues such as communication, boundaries, jealousy, and relationship agreements within a framework of ethical and respectful engagement.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. It’s Complicated is the first matching service that balances data and human intelligence to help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our mission is to make therapy accessible to everyone by offering flexible pricing options, so you can find professional support that fits your budget. Whether online or in-person, receive the care you need for depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more — available in more than 60 languages.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Michael Boiger, PhD

Michael Boiger, PhD

Couples Psychotherapist
Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Transitions • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy
125 / session125
Berlin
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Helena Varvaroussis

Helena Varvaroussis

Clinical Psychologist
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Sexual abuse • Relationships • Couples therapy • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Sexual abuse • Relationships • Couples therapy • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy
90 / session90
Frankfurt am Main
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Laurin Angermeier

Laurin Angermeier

Neuropsychologist
Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Self-confidence • Attachment • Co-Dependency • Anxiety • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Breathwork
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Self-confidence • Attachment • Co-Dependency • Anxiety • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Breathwork
95 / session95
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Anna Geary-Meyer

Anna Geary-Meyer

Clinical Psychologist
Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Self-confidence • LGBTQI • Anxiety • Depression • Burnout
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Self-confidence • LGBTQI • Anxiety • Depression • Burnout
95 / session95
Berlin
In-person and Online
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Julie Haasova

Julie Haasova

Psychologist
Anxiety • Depression • Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy
80 / session80
Prague
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Marlon Kajus Lüning

Marlon Kajus Lüning

Systemischer Psychotherapeut i.A.
LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Stress • Burnout • Mindfulness • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD)
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Stress • Burnout • Mindfulness • Generalized anxiety disorder (GAD)
85 / session85
Berlin
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Morgane Sock

Morgane Sock

M. Sc. Psychologin, Psychotherapeutin i. A.
Burnout • Crisis intervention • Depression • LGBTQI • Anxiety • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Hypnotherapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Burnout • Crisis intervention • Depression • LGBTQI • Anxiety • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Hypnotherapy
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Penelope Myszka

Penelope Myszka

English-Speaking Clinical Psychologist
Depression • Social anxiety • Economic problems • Anxiety • Health anxiety • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Depression • Social anxiety • Economic problems • Anxiety • Health anxiety • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Therapy for Expats
80 / session80
Warsaw
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Omar Nicolas

Omar Nicolas

Psychological Counsellor
Attachment • Couples therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexuality • Anxiety
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Attachment • Couples therapy • Depression • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexuality • Anxiety
80 / session80
Berlin
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Annina Tonkov

Annina Tonkov

Clinical Psychologist (M.Sc.), Systemic counselor for individuals and couples, Couples and sex counselor, Queer and non-monogamy friendly
Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexual dysfunctions • Therapy for Expats • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Sex therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Couples therapy • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexual dysfunctions • Therapy for Expats • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Sex therapy
90 / session90
Nicosia
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Kaylee Flower

Kaylee Flower

Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • High Sensitivity • Therapy for Expats • Depression • Relationships • Sexuality
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Anxiety • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • High Sensitivity • Therapy for Expats • Depression • Relationships • Sexuality
60 / session60
Berlin
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Marina Lwow

Marina Lwow

Psychologische Psychotherapeutin
Anxiety • Depression • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Trauma • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Trauma • ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy
135 / session135
Berlin
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Christina Gesing

Christina Gesing

Psychotherapist & Sex Therapist
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexuality • Attachment • Couples therapy • Gender identity
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexuality • Attachment • Couples therapy • Gender identity
153 / session153
Berlin
In-person and Online
Video Profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Katharina Treder

Katharina Treder

Psychological Counsellor
Binge eating disorder • Burnout • Relationships • Social anxiety • Anxiety • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Binge eating disorder • Burnout • Relationships • Social anxiety • Anxiety • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy
90 / session90
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Marie Stoy

Marie Stoy

Paar- und Sexualberaterin
Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Attachment • Sex therapy • Systemic therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Communication Disorders • Couples therapy • Divorce • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Attachment • Sex therapy • Systemic therapy
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Laura-Solmaz Litschel

Laura-Solmaz Litschel

Systemische Einzel- Paar und Familientherapeutin
Couples therapy • Attachment • Anxiety • Stress • Chronic Pain • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Couples therapy • Attachment • Anxiety • Stress • Chronic Pain • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • LGBTQI
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person, Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sadie Smith

Sadie Smith

Psychological Counsellor
Harm reduction • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Addictions • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Harm reduction • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Addictions • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence
80 / session80
Berlin
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Maria Lara Mehlhorn

Maria Lara Mehlhorn

(M.Sc.) Clinical Psychologist, Systemic Psychotherapist i.T.
LGBTQI • Mindfulness • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Spiritual crisis • Stress • Crisis intervention
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
LGBTQI • Mindfulness • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Spiritual crisis • Stress • Crisis intervention
75 / session75
Hamburg
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Larisa Kharlanova

Larisa Kharlanova

Accreditated Psychotherapist and Jungian Analyst
Couples therapy • Eating disorders • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Self-harm • Active Imagination • Jungian analysis
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Couples therapy • Eating disorders • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Self-harm • Active Imagination • Jungian analysis
$60 / session60
Phnom Penh
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Willow Star Frederick

Willow Star Frederick

Sex Psychotherapist
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Sexuality • Sexual dysfunctions • Therapy for Expats
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Relationships • Sexuality • Sexual dysfunctions • Therapy for Expats
80 / session80
Barcelona
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Noémie Gmür

Noémie Gmür

Relationship & Sex Counsellor, trained to Hypnosis
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Trauma • Couples therapy • Gender identity • PTSD
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Trauma • Couples therapy • Gender identity • PTSD
70 / session70
Saint-Gilles - Sint-Gillis
In-person, Online and Text
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Ana Morin

Ana Morin

Couples and Sex therapist (HeilprG)
Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexual dysfunctions • Couples therapy • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • LGBTQI • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Divorce
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexual dysfunctions • Couples therapy • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • LGBTQI • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Divorce
100 / session100
Berlin
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Mirjam Jung

Mirjam Jung

Accredited Clinical Psycholgist
Anxiety • Depression • Mindfulness • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Adjustment disorders • Trauma Informed Care
USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • Mindfulness • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Adjustment disorders • Trauma Informed Care
100 / session100
Berlin
Online only
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Vera Fleischer

Vera Fleischer

CA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Heilpraktikerin (Psychotherapie)
Couples therapy • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Supervision for therapists • Transitions • Trauma • Childlessness • Gestalt therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Couples therapy • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Supervision for therapists • Transitions • Trauma • Childlessness • Gestalt therapy
110 / session110
Cologne
In-person and Online
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Kate Zoltak

Kate Zoltak

Sexologist
LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Sex therapy • Solution-focused therapy
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
LGBTQI • Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality • Kink and BDSM Knowledgeable • Sex therapy • Solution-focused therapy
£50 / session50
Wolverhampton
Online only

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

One does not have to be a therapist to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, with whom you can build a strong alliance, doesn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated, a global network of +1500 therapists on a mission to build the world's most sustainable marketplace for therapy.A few years in, we've helped tens of thousands of clients and counting, and built thriving therapy communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens as well as online.

Learn more about therapists who can help with Polyamory and Consensual non-monogamy

What is polyamory and consensual non-monogamy?

Polyamory and consensual non-monogamy (CNM) are relationship structures that involve having multiple romantic or sexual partners with the consent and knowledge of all parties involved. Unlike traditional monogamous relationships, which involve exclusivity between two partners, polyamorous and CNM relationships embrace openness, honesty, and ethical communication. Participants in polyamorous relationships may form deep emotional connections with multiple partners, while CNM may involve various forms of non-exclusive arrangements, such as open relationships, swinging, or polyfidelity. These relationship styles challenge societal norms around monogamy and offer individuals the opportunity to explore diverse expressions of love, intimacy, and connection.

 

Effective support for polyamory and consensual non-monogamy 

Effective therapy for individuals and couples navigating polyamory and CNM focuses on fostering healthy communication, addressing jealousy and insecurity, and navigating complex relationship dynamics. Therapists who specialise in polyamory and CNM provide a non-judgmental and supportive space for clients to explore their desires, boundaries, and relationship agreements. They help clients develop skills for managing jealousy, negotiating boundaries, and maintaining trust and intimacy within their non-monogamous relationships. Additionally, therapy can address societal stigma and provide validation and affirmation for individuals living alternative relationship lifestyles.

 

Find the right therapist on It’s Complicated

It may take some exploration and open communication with potential therapists to discover the approach and therapist that aligns best with your needs and preferences. Trusting your instincts and being patient with yourself throughout this process can help alleviate some of the overwhelm and lead to a smoother therapeutic journey. If you are interested in therapy to assist you in improving your life quality, It's Complicated operates in nearly 100 languages, offering both online and in-person sessions. With a diverse network of over 1,500 mental health professionals spanning 80+ countries, you can easily connect with accredited psychologists who can support you and your partners.

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