It's Complicated

Find a therapist that can help with Gender identity

Gender identity refers to a person's internal sense of their own gender, which may or may not match the gender they were assigned at birth based on their biological sex. People who identify as transgender, nonbinary, or gender nonconforming may experience gender dysphoria, which is the distress or discomfort that comes from the mismatch between their gender identity and their assigned gender. It is important to note that gender identity is not the same as sexual orientation, which refers to a person's emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to others. Gender identity is a separate aspect of a person's identity and should be respected and supported in the same way as any other aspect of a person's identity.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors offer therapy in English, German, and more than 90 other languages. They are available to meet you online or in person and can help you with depression, anxiety, trauma, stress, and more.It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.

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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Vlad Selivanov

Vlad Selivanov

Counselling Psychologist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Self-confidence • Solution-focused therapy • Supervision for therapists • Therapy for Expats
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Self-confidence • Solution-focused therapy • Supervision for therapists • Therapy for Expats
50 / session50
Lisbon
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Ahmed Kandeel

Ahmed Kandeel

Psychodynamic Counsellor
Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Grief & Loss • Psychodynamic therapy • Sexual abuse • Trauma
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Grief & Loss • Psychodynamic therapy • Sexual abuse • Trauma
£65 / session65
Temple Cowley
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Tamara Dellutri

Tamara Dellutri

Lacanian Psychoanalyst
Anxiety • Brief Psychotic Disorder • Childlessness • Eating disorders • Gender identity • Grief & Loss • Lacanian Psychoanalysis
RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN
Anxiety • Brief Psychotic Disorder • Childlessness • Eating disorders • Gender identity • Grief & Loss • Lacanian Psychoanalysis
85 / session85
London
In-person and Online
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Hendrik Berg

Hendrik Berg

Systemic Counsellor
Academic or educational problems • Chronic Illness • Counselling • Gender dysphoria • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Systemic Approach
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • Chronic Illness • Counselling • Gender dysphoria • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Systemic Approach
60 / session60
Leipzig
Online and Text
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Julieta Fiorentino

Julieta Fiorentino

Clinical psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
85 / session85
Berlin
In-person and Online
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Marzia Santori Reay

Marzia Santori Reay

Accredited Jungian Psychoanalyst (CGJung-Institute ZH) and psychotherapist / M.D.
Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Career • Depression • Female empowerment • Gender identity • Relationships
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Career • Depression • Female empowerment • Gender identity • Relationships
£80 / session80
London
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Carolien Gibb

Carolien Gibb

Sexologist: Sexual Health, Sex & Couples Therapist, ADHD Couple Specialist.
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • Disorders of sexual preference • Gender identity • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • Disorders of sexual preference • Gender identity • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
$65 / session65
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Clara Becker

Clara Becker

Systemic Counselor
Academic or educational problems • Career • Female empowerment • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
Academic or educational problems • Career • Female empowerment • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
60 / session60
Nantes
In-person and Online
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Oleksii Tkachenko

Oleksii Tkachenko

English-speaking Gestalt Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Phobic anxiety disorder • Relationships • Stress
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Phobic anxiety disorder • Relationships • Stress
70 / session70
Kyiv
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Emma Hutton

Emma Hutton

Art Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Art therapy • Autism spectrum • Depression • Gender identity • Sexuality • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Anxiety • Art therapy • Autism spectrum • Depression • Gender identity • Sexuality • Trauma
35 / session35
Johannesburg
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Florencia Villalva

Florencia Villalva

Psychological Counselor
Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI
65 / session65
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Dr. Candace Adams

Dr. Candace Adams

Psychologist/Psychosexual Relationship Therapist
Gender identity • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexuality • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Gender identity • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexuality • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
120 / session120
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Julia de Souza Queiroz

Julia de Souza Queiroz

Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • PTSD • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • PTSD • Trauma
65 / session65
Lisbon
In-person and Online
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Mehrnoush Ahmadi

Mehrnoush Ahmadi

Counseling Psychologist
Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Trauma
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS
Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Trauma
70 / session70
Berlin
In-person and Online
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Alice Rollini

Alice Rollini

Clinical Psychologist and Sex Therapist
Couples therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS
Couples therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
64 / session64
Berlin
In-person and Online
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Taylan Zimmermann

Taylan Zimmermann

Klinischer Psychologe & Psychotherapeut
Burnout • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • Insomnia • LGBTQI • Mindfulness
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Burnout • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • Insomnia • LGBTQI • Mindfulness
110 / session110
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Omri Gilan

Omri Gilan

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Crisis intervention • Depression • Gender identity • PTSD • Sexual dysfunctions
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS
Addictions • Anxiety • Crisis intervention • Depression • Gender identity • PTSD • Sexual dysfunctions
100 / session100
Berlin
Online only
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Ruben Seromenho

Ruben Seromenho

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Sexuality
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Sexuality
60 / session60
Faro
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

David Pulice

David Pulice

Psychologist
Career • Clinical psychology • Counselling • Gender identity • Integrative therapy • LGBTQI
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS
Career • Clinical psychology • Counselling • Gender identity • Integrative therapy • LGBTQI
80 / session80
Berlin
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About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

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