It's Complicated

Find a therapist practicing EFT: Emotionally focused therapy

EFT is usually a short-term treatment for couples, which has also been adapted to work with individuals and families. In the EFT sessions, you can expect to work on developing a more secure bond (attachment) within your friendships, partnership or family relations, which in turn results in better communication and stronger relationships.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Meet with one of our 1,500 vetted therapists online or in-person. Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors are experts at helping with anxiety, depression, stress, burnout, couples therapy, and more. It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Sophie Kortenbruck

Systemische Therapeutin, MA Psychology, MSc Global Mental Health
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Self-confidence • Sleep disorders
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Anxiety • Anxious (avoidant) personality disorder • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Self-confidence • Sleep disorders
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Milou Dorhout Mees

Psychologist (M.Sc.), CBT and EMDR therapist, licensed yoga and meditation teacher
Anger • Anxiety • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Holistic approach • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
Anger • Anxiety • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Holistic approach • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
70/session
Online only
Amsterdam
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Dariia Milinchuk

Clinical Psychologist (Msc.), couple therapist
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissism • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Narcissism • Psychological abuse • Relationships • Therapy for Expats • Trauma
75/session
Online only
Amsterdam
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Katharina Hohmann

Mindfulness-Based Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Holistic approach • Mindfulness • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Holistic approach • Mindfulness • Parenthood • Systemic therapy
75/session
Online only
Puerto Varas
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video profile
USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Maja Helena Harmes

Mindfulness-based Counselling and Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Emotion-Focused Approaches
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress • Therapy for Expats
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Self-confidence • Stress • Therapy for Expats
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Ina Susanne Plettl

Coach, Psychotherapist (HPG)
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Psychotherapy • Systemic therapy
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Online therapy • Psychotherapy • Systemic therapy
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Theresa Feulner

Clinical Psychologist, Couples Therapist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapists for Ukraine
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Schema therapy • Self-confidence • Therapists for Ukraine
95/session
Online only
Hassfurt
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Gaia Gozzano

Clinical psychologist Italian and English
Attachment • Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR
Attachment • Body therapy • Counselling • Couples therapy • Crisis intervention • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Laura Roguski

Systemic Coach, Counsellor and Therapist (SG)
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Schema therapy • Sexuality
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Schema therapy • Sexuality
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Lenssa

Psychologist (M.Sc.); Systemic Therapist
Career • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
Career • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Supervision for therapists • Systemic therapy
120/session
In-person, Online and Text
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Sven Markus Richter

Couples Psychotherapist
Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Trauma
Couples therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Trauma
149/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Marc R. Backs

Naturopath for integrative psychotherapy, hypnosis and holistic body incorporation
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Body therapy • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Hypnotherapy • Integrative therapy
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Body therapy • Burnout • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • EMDR • Hypnotherapy • Integrative therapy
80/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS AFTER 24 HOURS

Marylise Dumont

Couples therapist
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Sexuality
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Relationships • Sexuality
180/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Caroline Müller

Systemische und lösungsorientierte Therapie und Beratung
Counselling • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Transgenerational
Counselling • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Family therapy • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Transgenerational
100/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Nora Cahanovitc

Psychologische Psychotherapeutin, Verhaltenstherapeutin
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Personal development • Relationships • Self-confidence • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
99/session
Online only
Be'er Sheva
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Alessia Carrano

Relationship and Sex Counsellor
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • LGBTQI • Relationships
70/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Sára Ritter

Couples Counsellor
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mediation • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Therapy for Expats
Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mediation • Relationships • Solution-focused therapy • Systemic therapy • Therapy for Expats
90/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Charlotte Wong

Counselling Psychologist from Hong Kong
Anxiety • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
Anxiety • Career • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Depression • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Psychodynamic therapy • Relationships
110/session
Online only
Ottawa
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Rosanna Wendel

Clinical Psychologist (MSc), Systemic therapy, EFT for couples
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Relationships
Attachment • Couples therapy • EFT: Emotionally focused therapy • Mood (affective) disorders • Relationships
100/session
Online only
Berlin

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

The Therapy Talk Podcast

With co-founder and clinical psychologist Johanne Schwensen