It's Complicated

Find a therapist that can help with Gender identity

Gender identity refers to a person's internal sense of their own gender, which may or may not match the gender they were assigned at birth based on their biological sex.

People who identify as transgender, nonbinary, or gender nonconforming may experience gender dysphoria, which is the distress or discomfort that comes from the mismatch between their gender identity and their assigned gender.

It is important to note that gender identity is not the same as sexual orientation, which refers to a person's emotional, romantic, or sexual attraction to others. Gender identity is a separate aspect of a person's identity and should be respected and supported in the same way as any other aspect of a person's identity.

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The connection and therapeutic alliance to one's therapist is the most important factor for a successful outcome. Our in-house psychologists will help you find the right match based on your individual background and needs.Meet with one of our 1,500 vetted therapists online or in-person. Our psychologists, psychotherapists, and counsellors are experts at helping with anxiety, depression, stress, burnout, couples therapy, and more. It's Complicated is built and owned by therapists. Since starting in Berlin 2019 we have grown organically into an international platform with local therapist communities in cities such as Berlin, Amsterdam, Copenhagen, Lisbon, London, and New York.
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Mehrnoush Ahmadi

Counseling Psychologist
Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Trauma
Anger • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Panic attacks • Trauma
70/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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RESPONSE TIME UNKNOWN

Tamara Dellutri

Lacanian Psychoanalyst
Anxiety • Brief Psychotic Disorder • Childlessness • Eating disorders • Gender identity • Grief & Loss • Lacanian Psychoanalysis
Anxiety • Brief Psychotic Disorder • Childlessness • Eating disorders • Gender identity • Grief & Loss • Lacanian Psychoanalysis
85/session
In-person and Online
London
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Taylan Zimmermann

Klinischer Psychologe & Psychotherapeut
Burnout • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • Insomnia • LGBTQI • Mindfulness
Burnout • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • Insomnia • LGBTQI • Mindfulness
110/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

Florencia Villalva

Psychological Counselor
Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI
Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Lacanian Psychoanalysis • LGBTQI
65/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Hendrik Berg

Systemic Counsellor
Academic or educational problems • Chronic Illness • Counselling • Gender dysphoria • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Systemic Approach
Academic or educational problems • Chronic Illness • Counselling • Gender dysphoria • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Systemic Approach
60/session
Online and Text
Leipzig
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Julia de Souza Queiroz

Licensed Clinical Psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • PTSD • Trauma
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • PTSD • Trauma
65/session
In-person and Online
Lisbon
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Oleksii Tkachenko

English-speaking Gestalt Psychotherapist
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Phobic anxiety disorder • Relationships • Stress
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • Phobic anxiety disorder • Relationships • Stress
70/session
Online only
Kyiv
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Ruben Seromenho

Accredited Clinical Psychologist
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Sexuality
ACT: Acceptance and Commitment Therapy • Attachment • CBT: Cognitive behavioral therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Online therapy • Sexuality
60/session
Online only
Faro
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Marzia Santori Reay

Accredited Jungian Psychoanalyst (CGJung-Institute ZH) and psychotherapist / M.D.
Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Career • Depression • Female empowerment • Gender identity • Relationships
Adjustment disorders • Anxiety • Career • Depression • Female empowerment • Gender identity • Relationships
£80/session
Online only
London
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Carolien Gibb

Sexologist: Sexual Health, Sex & Couples Therapist, ADHD Couple Specialist.
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • Disorders of sexual preference • Gender identity • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Couples therapy • Disorders of sexual preference • Gender identity • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
$90/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Zehra Bekişoğlu

M.Sc. Psychologist
Anxiety • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships
Anxiety • Counselling • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Personal development • Relationships
70/session
Online only
Dortmund
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 12 HOURS

Dr. Candace Adams

Psychologist/Psychosexual Relationship Therapist
Gender identity • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexuality • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
Gender identity • LGBTQI • Relationships • Sex therapy • Sexuality • Supervision for therapists • Trauma
120/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Marcus O'Shea

Counsellor (MBACP)
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • PTSD • Trauma
ADHD: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder • Anxiety • Depression • Gender identity • LGBTQI • PTSD • Trauma
60/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Julieta Fiorentino

Clinical psychologist
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
Anxiety • Burnout • Depression • Gender identity • Panic attacks • Psychoanalysis • Trauma
85/session
In-person and Online
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 8 HOURS

Emma Hutton

Art Psychotherapist
Anxiety • Art therapy • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Depression • Gender identity • Sexuality • Trauma
Anxiety • Art therapy • Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) • Depression • Gender identity • Sexuality • Trauma
35/session
Online only
Johannesburg
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Clara Becker

Systemic Counselor
Academic or educational problems • Career • Female empowerment • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
Academic or educational problems • Career • Female empowerment • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Therapy for Expats • Transitions
60/session
In-person and Online
Nantes
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 4 HOURS

Omri Gilan

Clinical Psychologist & Psychotherapist
Addictions • Anxiety • Crisis intervention • Depression • Gender identity • PTSD • Sexual dysfunctions
Addictions • Anxiety • Crisis intervention • Depression • Gender identity • PTSD • Sexual dysfunctions
100/session
Online only
Berlin
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 2 HOURS

Corine Rodrigue

Couples and Sex Therapist
Counselling • Couples therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
Counselling • Couples therapy • Gender identity • LGBTQI • Sex therapy • Sexual dysfunctions • Sexuality
80/session
In-person and Online
Nice
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USUALLY RESPONDS WITHIN 24 HOURS

David Pulice

Psychologist
Career • Clinical psychology • Counselling • Gender identity • Integrative therapy • LGBTQI
Career • Clinical psychology • Counselling • Gender identity • Integrative therapy • LGBTQI
80/session
Online only
Berlin

About It's Complicated

In 2019, two therapists set out to tackle a complicated problem.

The psychiatrist Carl Jung once wrote that, “Nobody, as long as he moves about among the chaotic currents of life, is without trouble”. One does not have to be a therapist, though, to realize that life is complicated. But finding the right therapist, who you can build a strong relationship with, shouldn’t have to be. This is the founding principle of It’s Complicated.Since our start, we've helped over 23,000 clients and counting, offering thousands of free crisis support hours, and built thriving therapy communities in Berlin, Amsterdam, London, Munich, and Athens.

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